Posts Tagged ‘vaginismus’

Maintaining cervical health

Wednesday, February 10th, 2010

We happened upon this easy-to-read article on maintaining cervical health and found it to be a reasonable answer to the question of how often should a woman get a Pap smear.  This is particularly relevant given the report in the September 2009 Journal of Obstetrics and Gynecology suggesting some women can wait three years in between Pap smear tests.

Women who come to the Center generally have their own primary gynecologist for routine cervical screening.  That said, when we treat women with vaginal pain, painful intercourse or  vaginismus (a condition that results in extraordinary pain when anything is inserted  into the vagina) one of the first things that crosses our mind is, “how long ago did she have a Pap smear?”.  Women with vaginal pain or vaginismus often avoid pelvic exams and Pap screening because they fear the pain it may cause. 

If you or someone you know is avoiding a Pap because it’s impossible to imagine a speculum entering the vagina without intolerable pain, there is help.  There are different kinds of treatments – from creams to dilators to Botox injections under general anesthesia – that can help a woman take care of her health in every possible way.

http://www.annarbor.com/health/understanding-the-guidelines-for-maintaining-your-cervical-health/

New Treatment for Vaginismus – Botox

Friday, February 5th, 2010

Our team just went up to New Hampshire to learn a new treatment for severe vaginismus from a wonderful Doctor. He (and his caring staff) have developed a procedure which uses general anesthesia and botox in order to help women over the first, most frightening hurdle of treatment.

When I am lecturing and trying to explain vaginismus , the analogy I use to describe how a patient feels is to compare it to what your reaction might be if I told you I was going to put a pen into your eye. 

If I said to you,”Listen, I am going to put this pen in your eye. Not to worry, it won’t hurt a bit and actually it will feel good,” you would look at me as though I had three heads and run for your life.

Patients with severe vaginismus feel that way. Often with anti anxiety medications, behavior medication, relaxation exercises we can work with a woman to help her get those first dilators in. Sometimes it just doesn’t work and it’s just too hard.

 This new procedure has the women under general anesthesia while a physician injects Botox (stops the muscles from going into spasm) local anesthesia(so that there is absolutely no initial pain) and put in a large dilator. The patient wakes up having the dilator in and that really is jumping the first few hurdles. There is still significant work for the patient. She has to work with dilators, get comfortable with the idea of inserting something into her vagina, internalize the idea that there is really no pain and then make the  transfer to intercourse.

It doesn’t solve the whole problem, but it can be a big help and relief for the right patient and we are so glad that we will be able to offer  it in our office as well.

Vaginismus

Wednesday, February 3rd, 2010

If you’ve perused this website you know that vaginismus is a condition where there is involuntary spasm of the entry muscles to the vagina, causing either pain or, in extreme cases a complete inability to penetrate.

I hope you also know that it’s very treatable and you shouldn’t’ t feel like you have to live with it. One of things I’ve noticed with vaginismus patients is that they are often scared to come  in for treatment and therefore put things off for a very long time – and suffer needlessly.

Sometimes they put things off and put things off until there is some crises, a partner leaves, they stop dating  etc.

But if that’s you— here’s something to think about:

more often than not, the fear is way worse than the treatment. Most patients say that once they got in the door, the rest was easy.

So maybe  it’s time you treated yourself!

On pain…

Tuesday, May 5th, 2009

If one more patient comes in and tells me she has spent a year with a therapist talking about the pain in her vagina and low and behold she still has the pain… I will get up and scream. Really. I promise.  I can’t stand it. I can’t stand the ridiculous notion that “it is all in your head,” except it isn’t. I have a secret for you… generally a horse is a horse, not a zebra and generally pain is pain… NOT “your vagina telling you you don’t want to have sex.” Let’s try another one… maybe it’s your vagina telling you THAT IT HURT G-D DAMN IT!!  Whew… I feel so much better.

And here’s another secret: often pain isn’t so very hard to treat, if you know what your doing — a little stretching, a little biofeedback, a little estrogen cream, a better lubricant, sometimes a medication and voila — MOST pain can be treated successfully.

So listen to me. If you have pain, don’t let anyone tell you that you don’t or it’s not real just because they can’t “see it.” The fact that they can’t see it is their problem, not yours. So get help. Real help. And make that pain go away.

Newsletter Brings Vaginismus into the Open

Friday, September 26th, 2008

The Medical Center for Female Sexuality remains on the cutting edge of female sexual concerns with the latest issue of its newsletter, Sex for Women Today.  The September issue is dedicated to vaginismus, a rarely discussed disorder identified by pain during intercourse.  Women are finding there is a solution and they no longer need to suffer through it.  You can also subscribe to the newsletter and have it delivered directly to your email inbox.

vaginismus – yet again

Friday, August 15th, 2008

So you (or your friend, or your daughter, our your friend’s daughter) hasn’t consummated their marriage. It’s a deep dark secret, but finally they got themselves to talk to someone (You.) They are not alone. It is (unfortunately!) not so rare. It is treatable!! They should get themselves a good practitioner who has dealt with this… and deal with it. The sooner the better. See this new article from MSNBC.

vaginismus

Monday, July 28th, 2008

I have to write about vaginismus. It’s a condition where a woman can’t get a penis into her vagina. It can be mild… so mild that often-time she can get a penis in the vagina for very short periods but it’s unpleasant and painful. Or it can be severe, so severe, she can’t touch herself near her vagina,can’t have a gynecological exam, can’t insert a tampon.

It is one of the most devastating conditions we see in patients. Not becaus ethe absence of intercourse is by definition the loss of a sex life. But these women start to think that there is something crazy and abnormal about them. They start to feel horrible about themselves. They start to avoid any sexual encounters with partners. Some even go so far as to stop dating altogether.

Seeing vaginismus patients has become a large part of our practice. I used to think it was much rarer than I do now. My heart breaks for these patients. Part of the problem is psychological, they are uptight, scared, anxious, petrified. Much of the problem is physical. Their vaginas are tight and there is pain. What always strikes me is how much avoidance these women exhibit. They have every excuse in the book why they haven’t dealt with the problem, can’t deal with it now, and can’t do excercise. The physical part of it is very treatable, if they don’t run away petrified. And no. I haven’t seen a correlation with sexual abuse.

one man's…

Monday, May 12th, 2008

It never ceases to amaze me… one day recently I had two back to back vaginismus patients. “What’s vaginismus?” you ask. It’s a condition (not that rare at all mind you) where a woman can’t get a penis into her vagina. It can be severe. She can’t get a finger or a tampon in. Or it can be mild. She can get the penis in. It just hurts like heck. Anyhow, back to my story. The treatment that we use for vaginismus (put a bit oversimplified) is to introduce progressively larger “dilators”  (hard plastic cylindrical inserters which look very medicinal) into the vagina to relax it and to stretch it. Once we get to the largest dilator, we then move on to penis shaped vibrators or dildos. When asked if their partner had helped put the dilators in: patient #1 responded that her partner had been horrified at the penis shaped vibrator and was only willing to use the “dilators” since they didn’t look like sex toys. Patient #2 responded that her partner didn’t like the medicinal looking “dilators” and was waiting for those fun dildos. Okay. Once again we learn that …. hm… one man’s dildo is another man’s dilator?