Posts Tagged ‘sexual health’

Research on Oral Contraceptives

Thursday, April 7th, 2011 by Bat Sheva Marcus LMSW MPH PhD

Oral contraception and the vagina: I have a love/hate relationship with the pill!

I love the fact that it allows women to have a sex life without worrying about pregnancy.
I love the fact that it makes birth control fairly effortless and painless.
I love the fact that it’s so easy to access.

I hate the fact that no one tells you it can have a significantly negative impact on your desire, your ability to become aroused and the health of your vagina!

A recent large scale study (1,219 female students in Germany) found that a bit over 30% of women on oral birth control were at risk for some sort of sexual disorder. That’s A LOT of women!

I would love birth control pills more if I felt that the prescribing physicians were more informed about potential side effects. Saying something to patients like: “Most women do fine when they are taking birth control pills. But if you find that your libido is dropping, that you aren’t getting the same sensations you were before starting them, or that you start having pain with intercourse, it may be due to the pill. And make sure you tell me so that we can find an alternate method.”

Now that is what I’d call good, solid sexual health advice!

Religion and Sex

Thursday, March 31st, 2011 by Bat Sheva Marcus LMSW MPH PhD

Some religions think sex is a sin. Many do not. The frustrating thing is that even religions which do not have this view seem to have adopted aspects of this way of thinking. And it’s even more frustrating when people who do not consider themselves religious somehow absorb  the idea that sex is sinful.

Why? It is clear that religion has played a powerful role in our communal psyche, even for people who don’t practice or consider themselves religious. I wonder, though, whether some of this perspective is shaped by the fact that sex is fun, and in a weird way we’ve been conditioned to be skeptical of fun. You know the old joke that sex is the best pastime. It’s great exercise, doesn’t cost money and feels great! I wonder if we think that anything that feels that good MUST be “bad.”

The truth is that  in some religions, sex is considered a wonderful thing, especially within the context of a committed relationship.

So let’s try to get past the taboos which may not really be relevant to us, and realize that having fun is a good thing. And so is sex!

Fighting For Sexual Freedom

Monday, February 21st, 2011 by Barbara Gross, LMSW

Fighting for Sexual Freedom

I read an article a few weeks ago in the New York Times that has really stayed with me. It is about Eve Ensler’s center for female leadership  in the Congo, called City of Joy. I first heard about playwright Eve Ensler, when I read her most well-known  play the Vagina Monologues. This is a powerful   piece of writing  that changed the way many women view their anatomy.  Ensler has continued to inspire and educate women through her  advocacy group V-Day.

She recently opened a center in Bukavu in the Congo to educate and empower women and to stop the wide spread sexual violence that has ravaged that country.  I found this article very inspiring and I think you will too.

http://www.nytimes.com/2011/02/07/world/africa/07congo.html?_r=1&scp=2&sq=eve%20ensler&st=cse

I have always been passionate about women’s sexual health and at the Center we are committed to helping women lead sexually fulfulling lives.  I would also recommend Eve Ensler’s book The Vagina Monologues. It is a quick, fun read. Enjoy!

The Sunshine Vitamin

Friday, February 11th, 2011 by Tara Ford, RPA-C

The Sunshine Vitamin

You may be surprised to learn that the sun is actually the best source of vitamin D, hence its nickname as the “sunshine vitamin.”   People who live in areas that have long winters, with a lot of snow and not much sunshine are most susceptible to vitamin D deficiency.  At MCFS, we routinely screen our patients for vitamin D deficiency and have seen a definite increase in deficiency this winter.  This is not a surprise to us since we are experiencing one of the coldest, darkest, snowiest winters on record!

Over the past 15 years, researchers have discovered that vitamin D plays a sweeping role in many diverse aspects of our health.  Research suggests vitamin D may provide protection from hypertension, diabetes, psoriasis, depression, several autoimmune diseases (including multiple sclerosis and rheumatoid arthritis).  We know it helps to prevent osteoporosis and bone fractures, but there is growing evidence that it also plays an important role in immune functioning and defending against different cancers including breast, ovarian, prostate and colorectal.

So, it’s important to make sure you are not deficient in a vitamin that contributes so greatly to your overall well being.  A simple blood test is all you need.  Unfortunately, not all healthcare providers include this test as part of their routine screening, so don’t assume your levels are normal if you were told your blood work is ok.

Luckily, there are simple things we can do to prevent vitamin D deficiency:

1-     Sunshine- Our bodies naturally produce vitamin D when skin is exposed to sunlight.  However sunscreen blocks the UVB rays necessary for synthesis.  Experts recommend sun exposure without sunscreen for no more than 10-15 minutes.  If you are sensitive to the sun and burn easily, keep the sunscreen and read on…

2-     Food- Consuming vitamin D fortified foods will also help but it’s very difficult to get adequate vitamin D from foods alone.  Fatty fish (salmon, mackerel, tuna, and sardines), cod liver oil, milk and eggs are great natural sources as well as fortified orange juice, cereals and margarine.

3-     Supplement- Researchers suggest that the easiest way to increase your vitamin D is by taking over the counter supplements.  There has been great debate over the amount of vitamin D one can safely ingest and the consensus is 1,000-2,000 IU of Vitamin D3 daily is optimal.

If your vitamin D levels are significantly low, your healthcare practitioner may recommend prescription strength vitamin D for a short period of time (usually 1-3 months) to initially boost your level and then you can maintain that level with over the counter supplements.

New Year’s and Exercise

Wednesday, January 5th, 2011 by Tara Ford, RPA-C

Happy New Year!

Joining a gym and getting more exercise is probably the most sought after resolution year after year.  As a former personal trainer I can attest to the fact that the fitness industry booms after we ring in the New Year.  Gym memberships can be very expensive especially when you factor in the money you spend on new sneakers, workout gear, gym bags, iPods and gas money!! Unfortunately, most people will leave the gym altogether by March feeling like a failure for not having achieved their unrealistic goals.

So, this year let’s be more realistic, economical and focus on making exercise FUN!

According to the dictionary, “exercise is physical activity that is planned, structured, and repetitive for the purpose of conditioning any part of the body. Exercise is utilized to improve health, maintain fitness and is important as a means of physical well-being.”

Nowhere in that definition was the word GYM!  Can you see where I’m going with this?  Sex is definitely a physical activity, it can be planned, structured and if you’re lucky…repetitive!  So, it fits the definition for exercise and like any exercise it helps to improve your overall health and well-being!

So, don’t feel guilty this year if you ditch your gym plans and opt to stay in bed!

{If you do have some alone time – a precious commodity for the busy person – there is a CD for Kegel exercises, called Kegels Anywhere.  Here’s a link to a free demo.

Size….again

Thursday, July 15th, 2010 by Bat Sheva Marcus LMSW MPH PhD

 Am I starting to sound like a broken record? Again and again, we get women saying “I wish my partner was a little smaller. I guess I’m an anomaly, but I just don’t like having intercourse with a large penis. It hurts.” You’re not an anomaly. It is so rare that anyone complains of a penis being too small, but larger penises can present their own challenges and not every women’s vaginal canals can handle the larger penis. So guys… one more time – (should we say it in unison?) BIGGER IS NOT NECESSARILY BETTER!

Sex Week at UMDNJ – 2010

Tuesday, January 12th, 2010 by Shannon Bertha, ACS, PhD

This past week, the University of Medicine and Dentistry of New Jersey held its 37th annual human sexuality program for second year medical students.  This program offers large group lectures, panelists, workshops and small group debriefings surrounding various issues in sexuality.  Future doctors are exposed to a variety of information on sexuality and learn how to be accepting and non-judgmental of people’s sexual practices.  Students practice giving sexual histories and learn how to be sensitive and aware of spectrums of sexuality.

This January program included many sexuality professionals with different backgrounds such as  medical doctors, sexuality counselors, sex therapists, sex educators and social workers to name a few.  For the second year in a row, the program was fortunate to have three representatives from the Medical Center to present on sexual dysfunction.  Dr. Michael Werner gave an intriguing lecture on male sexual dysfunction and Dr. Bat Sheva Marcus opened up the students’ eyes to many issues women face when dealing with sexual dysfunction.  Dr. Shannon Bertha served as the program coordinator as well as the opening lecturer on “Normative Sexual Behaviors”.

It is beneficial for students to learn from practitioners in the field using specific case histories that we encounter.  Many students expressed support for such a program, one that had a completely professional focus where they could interact with other future clinicians on the complex issues of sex and sexual dysfunction.  Many were happy to know there are clinicians in practice who focus solely on women’s sexuality including sexual health and pleasure.