I frequently get calls from friends and family wanting to know what they should look for when selecting a therapist. My advice: In this age of specialization you should be able to select a therapist who has expertise in your very specific area of concern. Second, studies show that up to 45% of the effectiveness of therapy depends on how well you connect with your therapist. Is their personality compatible with your personality? Are they actively involved in helping you create solutions or do they simply nod and sigh? Either approach is okay depending on your style, however if you are conscious of what you want you are upping your odds for success. Third, I tell my friends to select a therapist that is active in the professional community. None of us has all the answers, but the best therapists are tapped into a broader network of experts we can consult with or refer you to. Lastly, the pink elephant in the room is often economics. It is important that you select a therapist whose fees are within your budget. If paying with a credit card or insurance is important to you, then be sure to ask about it. And by the way, the right therapist who is more expensive per hour may still turn out to be less expensive, if he or she can help you achieve your goals quickly. At the end of the day, remember one thing, the really good therapists are only concerned with one thing and that is that you get the best possible care. www.doctorcannon.com
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Selecting the right therapist for you…
Saturday, November 8th, 2008 by Dr. Neil CannonThe New Rules of Marriage…
Wednesday, October 22nd, 2008 by Dr. Neil CannonFor a long and happy marriage, compromise can cause as much pain as pleasure. Compromise by couples is a noble effort that is unfortunately often fraught with problems that can lead to resentment. The book, “The New Rules of Marriage” says it nicely. “No matter how hard you may try to take the high road, the discrepancy between the marriage you want and the one you’ve got that gnaws away at you like a slow-growing cancer. When you back away from your real needs, when you stop telling the truth – to your partner and yourself – you shut down…when you shut down the truth, you shut down yourself – your generosity, your sexuality, and your vitality.” Although it is not always easy, I encourage couples to compromise with caution and communicate deeply about their respective needs, wants, desires and dreams.

