I was talking with a woman the other day who said she didn’t enjoy touching her clitoris. She then went on to say she really didn’t like her boyfriend to touch it either. She enjoys intercourse, but does not have an orgasm through intercourse. So she was on a mission to start masturbating more, but she still didn’t like touching her clitoris. She kept saying, “maybe I’m too sensitive down there”. When I asked her what she exactly touches, she responded, “well, duh, my clitoris”. I suggested she continue to touch that area, but this time, try more to either side, or more from the top, but not directly on the clitoris. The next time I saw her she was very excited to say hello, and “thank you, THAT is what everyone was talking about”.
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Thursday, October 30th, 2008 by Shannon Bertha, ACS, PhDFind your Clitoris
Monday, March 17th, 2008 by Bat Sheva Marcus LMSW MPH PhDI was having a conversation with a 72 year olf friend of mine. Me: “So, you never thanked me for that vibrator I sent you.” She:”I had no idea what to do with it.” Me: “hey, I sent it with that great book Sex For One” (the book’s by Betty Dodson, in case any of you want to look for it.) She: “Now how am I supposed to get that big thing inside of me.” Me: (slightly horrified)”Sweetheart, it’s not meant to go inside of you!” (I had given her the Hitachi Magic Wand — for those of you who have seen it, it looks like a BIG microphone for singing divas.) “You’re supposed to put it on your clitoris.” She: “Well how am I supposed to put on it, without going insided.” Me: “Uh… here, let’s pull out a picture.” I was dumbfounded… and maybe a more apt word would be “dumb” — why, oh why, did I assume that just because someone is 72 they know where their clitoris is!!
We need pictures. We need education. We need girlfriends!
Jolie
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