Kids at camp = more time for sex!

We had to repost this advice since, well, it’s summer!! Okay so your kids are at camp, you’re alone in the house — have sex! The summer might be an unusually great time for you to reconnect with your partner. Even if you’re not lucky enough to have the house to yourself, for many people …

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Size….again.

Am I starting to sound like a broken record? Again and again, we get women saying “I wish my partner was a little smaller. I guess I’m an anomaly, but I just don’t like having intercourse with a large penis. It hurts.” You’re not an anomaly. It is so rare that anyone complains of a …

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Goin’ down.

At times we may feel that our partners are not adequately stimulating us during sex. This can be true for men and women. It isn’t that our partners are bad lovers or do not know how to perform, but rather that they may not know what really turns us on. There can be many ways …

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Our sexual culture and The New York Times.

The latest public figure to make journalistic hay from the flibanserin controversy is Camille Paglia, whose editorial in The New York Times, ”No Sex Please, We’re Middle Class, “ seems to be getting some play on my twitter feed. It’s a fun read, but she throws a lot of things together that I’m not sure …

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How much is enough…sex?

The question always comes up: what’s the “right” amount of sex? At nearly every lecture I give, at some point, I get the question: “so how often is normal?” It’s the kind of questions we sex educators hate. Really. The honest truth is that couples vary so widely in their sexual desires and habits that …

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