Archive for April, 2009

FDA approves the Morning After Pill, Over the Counter for 17-year-olds

Tuesday, April 28th, 2009

On Thursday, April 23rd, 2009, the FDA approved sale of the morning after pill, over the counter for 17-year-olds.  Prior to this, it was available over the counter to people 18-years-old and older.  Though this may be a step in the right direction, to increase availability and access to emergency contraception, we must wonder what kind of impact this will have.

If people are able to access this at a younger age, does this mean there will be fewer unintended pregnancies and abortions?  Or possibly a rise in the STD rate?  Though this is an improvement, this must be backed up with reliable information via the education system, i.e. sex education.  Many teens are concerned about pregnancy, in most cases,  more so than STD’s.  Often, young people in the US who are using birth control do not worry much about STD’s because they think they are being safe, by preventing pregnancy.  However, in the Netherlands, most young women go on birth control as young as  14.  But, via the school systems and sex education, protection from BOTH pregnancy and STD’s is so ingrained in them, that young individuals use both condoms and hormonal birth control (IE. pills, patch, ring, shot).  In the Netherlands, it is referred to as “Double Dutch”.

So, although this is now available for younger people, it must be backed up with education.  The morning after pill is to be used in case of emergency, not a primary contraceptive method.  In addition, just because this is available, and can prevent pregnancy, it does NOT prevent STD’s.

Want more sex? Make your partner feel beautiful!

Tuesday, April 21st, 2009

Yesterday yet another women told me that one of the reasons she doesn’t want to have sex with her husband is because she’s so self conscious. Sigh. She doesn’t feel great about her body and HE DOESN’T MAKE HER FEEL GREAT ABOUT HER BODY! He makes comments if she gains weight. He makes comments about her belly button, he makes comments about hair on her body. Oh yea. And then he wants her to feel sexy, be sexy, and make love to him. (Double sigh)

Okay guys… here’s a little secret. If you make her feel beautiful — tell her she’s beautiful — tell her what things about her are beautiful — tell her what things about her turn you on — tell her…tell her… tell her… I PROMISE you! You’ll see a new woman. And the converse is true also. STOP telling her what you don’t like about her. It will just make her dive under the covers, wear fuzzy pajamas (you know, I love fuzzy pajamas so maybe that’s not so bad,) and avoid you (that is so bad.)

And here’s the funny thing. My guess is that if you are having more sex…she will look more beautiful to you. Just a hunch. Let me know if it works.

Ever wonder a cervix looks like?

Wednesday, April 8th, 2009

I, like many people are fascinated when television shows surgeries that are being performed or one that takes you inside an emergency room.  Anything, where I can take a look inside a human body and marvel at its many functions, working together in unison.  It is one thing to see a diagram or chart, a very different thing to see the real thing.  In this day of technological advances, we are able to peer in the human body and actually see parts of the human body. 

Check out:  http://www.beautifulcervix.com/ photos-of- cervix/

A 25-year-old woman took pictures of her cervix, everyday, for a month.  Look at the changes one can see just within one cycle of a woman’s period.  Not many of us, usually just people who perform gyno exams, have gotten this type of view.

Who says sex can't be fun and environmentally correct?

Tuesday, April 7th, 2009

You have got to see these film clips by Isabella Rossellini! They are fun, funny, accurate and adorable. Maybe consider showing them to your kids as well, but be forwarned, the whale penis is rather large!

Look here: Green Porno

better sex or more sex?

Thursday, April 2nd, 2009

Which would you choose? I know the knee-jerk response would be, of course I’d choose quality over quantity… but maybe it’s not that simple. If you had a choice between one fabulous, awesome lovemaking session a month, versus twice a week pretty-good sex?

Hmmm… maybe at different points in our lives we have to make the trade-off. Especially if we’ve just had kids, have career overload or some health issues. And maybe the intimacy and closeness that’s created even from “sex without the fireworks” is worth it.

I’m not suggesting a right answer here, folks. Just something to think about.