Sometimes I think I must be living in a cocoon. In my world, sex toys, vibrators in particular, are totally accepted. They are not shocking at all — kind of like up there with a bra. For example, you probably wouldn’t yell out at a cocktail party: “Oh yes, and this morning I bought this …
Continue ReadingA little massage goes a long way.
There are enormous benefits to touch and massage, such as: Release endorphins—which helps us feel well and balanced. Reduce stress. Enhanced sleep quality. Greater energy. Reduced fatigue. Decreases depression and anxiety. Improved concentration. Increased circulation. Enhance immunity by stimulating lymph flow and blood flow Improve the condition of the body’s largest organ—the skin. Pump oxygen …
Continue ReadingOn being a woman and being desired…
A few weeks ago the New York Times ran an article on what turns women on. It was fascinating in many ways but one thing really resonated with me because it put into perspective things women had been saying. It suggested that often women’s desire comes from being “wanted.” That is, women get turned when …
Continue ReadingSharing your fantasies with your partner…
I often am asked by women if they “should” share their sexual fantasies with their partner. Sometimes they want to but are afraid and sometimes they feel like they “should” because their partner is asking them to. My only advice is that the decision to do so should be totally up to you alone. …
Continue ReadingShhh, I’m a man and I want more intimacy in my relationship.
Just the other day I was asked a question from a man who wanted to increase the frequency of intercourse within his relationship. He was very concerned with how he would approach this to his female partner, afraid that his request would deem him a “horn dog” or a “typical male” who is just concerned …
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