Okay. Listen up folks. The only time penis size really matters is if the penis is too big and hurts the women. In all my hundereds of patients I HAVE NEVER had a woman complain to me that her partner’s penis was too small. Never! I have, however, had a number of women whose partner’s penis was so big as to make intercourse really, really uncomfortable. This is a fairly complicated problem to solve. A “small” penis is truthfully not something most women are going to care about (or even notice, frankly). The vaginal canal is not a big space. As a matter of fact, it’s not a space at all. It’s just “potential space” and it will open up to whatever size penis is introduced. And it will get the same amount of friction no matter what the size. So women, embrace the penis size of your partner. (If it’s too big, you may want to come see us though.) Men, let it be. Your penis is PERFECT.
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I’ve got to disagree — I’ve been with a man with a really big penis, and a man with a smaller-to-average penis, and I have to say that the bigger the better….there just isn’t the same friction with a smaller friction-making part, and especially after childbirth, the potential space, as you put it, is a bit, shall we say, more commodious.
Thanks for your comment. Although I do appreciate that different women have different preferences as to the size of the penis in them, it’s really rare for a penis to be so small as to dramatically effect the “feel.” I’m not saying it’s impossible, just rare. Here’s a thought though– sometimes we credit the smallness as the problem when there is an underlying e.d. issue. That is, the guy just isn’t getting really hard and we think that we’re not feeling much just because the penis is small when we just don’t have a fully hard penis inside. That can be fixed and pretty easily!
I’m a very sexually active male with a small penis, so I’ve experienced all the reactions. Some women care, some actually like small, some don’t care at all. I never assume what their preference is, just as they can’t assume if I’m into breasts or backside. We both have the right to like whatever we want. And really the reason it hasn’t been a problem for me is not because there aren’t size queens out there, because there are, but because I don’t care.
I’ve got a small penis. Most of the focus seems to be on telling average guys they are ok and not too small, but guys who actually are small are pretty much ignored. I’m nearly 30 and this is one of the main reasons I’ve never been intimate with a woman and probably never will be. The reason women may say they don’t care is because a guy with a small dick probably wouldn’t get them into bed in the first place. It’s sort of like the unsaid second part of the phrase when a woman says “Looks are not important to me (as long as he’s good looking)”. So it only “matters” if it a problem. Women will ridicule men with small penises shamelessly and with no guilt, you’ll never see men ridiculing women about breast size or anything else so openly and brazenly.
Sorry. I think you are wrong. I have had dozens of patients who say sex hurts and who say the best sex they ever had was with a guy whose penis was small. (not average, small) I’ve had women say things like “he had a small penis, but boy was he a great lover!” You can believe it or not, (and frankly, you would have ALOT more fun if you did believe it!) but women are concerned about way more things than penis size… like, does he love my body? Does he make me feel special? Does he make me feel beautiful? Oh my g-d, he doesn’t seem to mind my ass which is too (big, small, funny shaped — you fill in the blank), does he give good oral sex? Does he listen to my moaning and respond with what I like? Does he make me cum? Oh yea… there are women out there who like large penises, but don’t kid yourself. There are just as many, if not more, that would be thrilled with a great lover, even with a teeny, weeny penis!!
What you say is partially true, but basically it boils down to the fact that women with flaws want validation from men without flaws. A woman is going to want a man who doesn’t mind if her butt is big, but she herself would never want a guy who had a big butt. Women want acceptance from men for things they would never accept on men themselves. No woman wants love and affection from a guy as physically flawed as she is, and certainly never more flawed. It’s the double standard they all have. This is the other reason I haven’t been able to date beside the fear of intimacy.
Well, u know is not quite true….I’m a 22 years old male, with 6.7 inches penis (sadly a virgin). I’m a fantastic manager, a successful one; i give all i can to make a difference in what i do (job, friends, family). I am being appreciate by all my coworkers ans close friends. You can say that i’m living a dream!! But no (: i’m not! Why you ask? The reason is, of course, my penis!!
Nobody knows what is inside my soul, my mind! “Too small? YES, DAMN IT!!!” I did not have a girlfriend. Many girls wants to date me, many flirts with me (even my close friends),they find me very atractive (i don’t know why, i don’t find myself a charming man). What the hell, who am I to say otherwise. But the “obstacle” make me to not respond them…..I know my male friends have bigger penises, even 8-9 inches!! They have dates all the time, the girls run after them…I don’t go gym, fitness clubs…. I have even heard a discution betwen 3 girls: all three talked about their boyfriends penises, and how big they are and how fantastic they feel in bed!! This life is so unfair!! My self-esteem is very low! God wanted this way. why? i do not know!!!
I fight to myself: i’m trying to say to me “c’mon, think positive”!! But almost every time this positive thinking does not make any difference!!
I know girls like to see and feel a big penis (my studies, polls from everywhere, girls friends talks); sadly i can not satisfy them, i’m to….”small”!!! A great man “outside”, a sad man “inside”…That’s my destiny!! (unfortunately)